resting
the river keeps your place.
come back any time and carry on right here.
every thought finds its water
Manual: “choose only as many statements as you can cover in the time available.” Untick any you won’t use. Purpose — to identify which grief reactions are helpful versus harmful, and to gain more control over grief-related thoughts by recognizing them as they are happening. This activity is for the child only. Answers are visible below — keep this panel away from the child’s eyes.
The focused prototype includes both sides of all three grief dimensions. Your enabled custom and circumstance-specific thoughts stay in the core. Original cards remain available for optional exploration.
round one
sweep the water to send the thought left if it’s gloomy, right if it’s helpful.
A few examples in each stretch. You can explore more when the river rests.
Type one if you like (or just talk about it out loud). Then choose its water.
the whole river, glowing
these are the grief reactions you said happen to you. touch a plant, a fish or a crystal in the river to add one — their lights remember.
my grief
noticing a grief thought while it’s happening gives you more choice about what happens next.
every thought the river sorted ›
🌙 gloomy reactions
☀ helpful reactions
A thought waits at the top of the river.
Sweep the water to send it — left if it’s gloomy, right if it’s helpful — or just tap that side.
Every thought becomes part of the river: a plant, then a fish, then a crystal. If one happens to you,
click what it grew to mark it. You can leave it, or decide later. Every thought belongs in this river.
Later, touch any of them to read the thought it holds — and tap again to take it or let it go.
keys: 1 left pool · 2 right pool · S later · Enter continue · C keep it · M sound